Whose weekend is it. Who covers the dentist bill. What did you actually agree to in that text three weeks ago. When one parent forgets, the other one carries it, and every small miss can turn into a bigger fight.
A swap over text never makes it to either calendar, and the handoff falls apart at 5pm on a Friday.
You front the cost, send a photo of the receipt, and then chase a reimbursement that never quite lands.
When it matters, you are scrolling months of messages trying to reconstruct what was decided and when.
Trust does not come from tone. It comes from mechanism. PAR keeps a neutral, timestamped, tamper-evident record so nobody has to take the other person's word for what happened.
Exports carry a content hash computed over the record. If a single line is altered after the fact, the hash no longer matches, so the export proves its own integrity.
Generate a clean, printable record of expenses or of an entire conversation, with timestamps, time zones, real participant names, and a provenance block. Deleted messages appear as placeholders, not gaps.
The record is factual and even-handed. It documents what was scheduled, what was spent, and what was decided, without editorializing for either side.
Custody
Set your parenting-time pattern once and PAR lays it out on the same calendar as everything else. Week-on week-off, 2-2-3, or a custom rotation. Handoffs, transport, and pickups are clear to both sides, and it lives right next to school events and activities instead of in a separate app you forget to check.
Expenses
Log a cost once, attach the receipt, and PAR splits it and keeps a running total per parent. Send it to your co-parent for approval, mark reimbursements as they happen, and always know who owes what. PAR tracks the money and the agreement. It never moves funds, so you stay in control.
Documents
Insurance cards, the parenting plan, school forms, medical records. Keep the documents both households rely on in one place instead of buried in an email thread, so whoever needs them can find them without asking.
Journal
Jot down what happened at the handoff, how an appointment went, or a note for later. Your parenting journal is yours, a running record of the moments that are easy to forget but sometimes important to remember.
“For the first time since the divorce, our schedule and our expenses live somewhere we both trust. I stopped screenshotting texts to prove what we agreed to, and the handoffs finally just happen.”
Renee M., co-parent of two
The same app that keeps two homes in sync also runs your work calendar, your task list, your contacts, and your household. Snap a photo of a school flyer and it becomes events and tasks. Tell the assistant to move a meeting and it moves everything. You stop being the app that remembers everything.
Custody, expenses, the document vault, the parenting journal, and the court-grade record are all part of Family, one flat price for your whole household instead of a separate bill per parent.
Simple pricing · one app, two worlds
Starter is free forever. The whole household on Family is one flat price, not per parent, so it is a fraction of a dedicated co-parenting app. Family users get 20% off a work seat, and Pro or Business users get 20% off Family, because you are the same person.
Free forever
One shared calendar for you and one other person. Free forever, no card.
Solo & couples
Full calendar power for individuals and couples. No household features.
~$6.58/mo · billed annually
Everything in Starter, plus:
Household flat rate
The whole household, one flat price, not per parent. Built for co-parents and busy families.
up to 4 adults + kids
Everything in Plus, plus:
★ Cross-prong bonus
Each adult gets 20% off a Pro add-on seat for work.
Per seat
Solo operators and small teams who delegate and deliver.
Team seats $15/mo billed monthly
Everything in Plus, plus:
★ Cross-prong bonus
Add Family features for your household at 20% off.
Teams & agencies
Org workspace, roles, and audit log today, with enterprise SSO and provisioning on the way.
Volume discounts 25+ seats
Everything in Pro, plus:
Enterprise SSO, SCIM provisioning, audit log CSV export, data retention, and IP and integration allowlists are on the roadmap.
★ Cross-prong bonus
Every seat can add Family features for their household at 20% off.
PAR is invite-only while we onboard in small batches. Drop your email and we'll reach out when your spot opens up.
No. PAR tracks expenses, splits, and reimbursement status so you both always know where things stand, but it never processes payments or moves funds. You settle up however you already do.
Every export is timestamped, uses real participant names and time zones, includes a provenance block, and carries a content hash computed over the record. If anything is altered after export, the hash no longer matches, which makes tampering evident.
No. Co-parenting is part of the Family plan, which is one flat household price covering everyone on your side of the schedule, instead of a separate per-parent bill.
Yes. Your custody schedule, expense log, documents, and journal work on your side regardless. When your co-parent is ready, you can share a read-only expense record with them by secure link.